What friends see, and what you don't

Well, there is a lot...that friends see and oneself doesn't.
And as time goes by, you usually reach the point when you finally see, what your friends already saw a long time ago. And then...yeah then you tend to wish you could have seen it earlier.
Which you wouldn't of course, beacuse you were too caught up in the guy of the moment. And too blind to see, all the things that a few months after the 'realisation', will irritate the crap out of you.
Like how you became like a mother to him, cause you felt he couldn't take care of himself.  How he kept bugging you, even though you told him to stop at least 3 times before you angry burstout, which he should have seen coming. Or should I mention the hours and hours he spent infront of the computer? And then he complains you hang out with your friends too much, instead of him. Yeah the beauty of realization...

But then lets be realistic. I'm not that great either. I have my faults, I have sides that will irritate people too. I just hope I will find that someone, who will find them cute and not irritating.
And I sure wish I will find someone that I can feel that way about too.
Mr. Soulmate...... どこですか？!!